Actually, you can call your friends when you have a very big problem. This is what you do when you are single. However, when times go by and you have your own families, it is very difficult to have time with your best friend just to talk about anything and everything about your problems. It may be in your married life or your personal life. In reality, sharing problems to anyone is recommended to avoid being depressed.
However, it is more effective if you talk and share your problems to your partner. Aside that you have the chance to burst out your feelings, you can also get some advices on what to do about the problem, you also don’t have to worry because there is someone who can help you. Unlike an unmarried individual, married people have someone who have a shoulder to cry on most especially when they are down.
Being lonely is something that normal person will feel. It should be expressed clearly so that it will not be misinterpreted. It’s a feeling that usually takes place when there is a very painful tragedy that happened. For instance, death. Even if they are not your immediate family or close friend, you can also feel their feeling of loss which would make you cry and lean on someone that you need. Your husband or your wife is the one who can do that. Yes, it is very hard but little by little you can move on.